Don't Fret Over Your Mistakes: They Make You More LikeablePsychology

Don't Fret Over Your Mistakes: They Make You More Likeable

Whitson Gordon , Gawker Media

Don't Fret Over Your Mistakes: They Make You More Likeable

We worry a lot over the mistakes we've made, and to a point, that's a good thing. It can help us become better people. But eliminating mistakes altogether isn't the best goal-in fact, some studies have shown it makes you more likeable.

Kevin Lee explains over at Buffer:

Don't worry about tripping and falling in front of your boyfriend; doing so will only make him like you more. Go ahead and admit your failures to your friends; your humanness will endear yourself to them.

These mistakes attract charm as a result of the Pratfall Effect: Those who never make mistakes are perceived as less likeable than those who commit the occasional faux pas. Messing up draws people closer to you, makes you more human. Perfection creates distance and an unattractive air of invincibility. Those of us with flaws win out every time.

So that moment you're so embarrassed about? It might not be as bad as you think it is. It might just make you more human. Besides: if you aren't ever making mistakes, then you aren't doing anything.

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