How to Build a Cooking Habit
Have you ever said "I should really learn how to cook" but still can't bring yourself to do it? You're not alone. Millions of people consistently struggle with the same problem.
This post originally appeared on Summer Tomato .
Maybe you've tried to follow recipes or have even gone to a
But first let's talk about what "learning how to cook" actually means. It's different for everyone. Take a second and think about the answer to this question: At what point will you have officially reached your goal of learning how to cook?
Is it when you can cook for large groups?
Is it when you become a chef?
Do you need to open your own bakery?
Do you need to be able to cook something really fancy?
For most of you the answer to all of these questions is probably "no." No... you don't need to be a chef, to replicate what you see on the
Most of our students discover that what they want is much simpler. They want t
- Feed themselves regularly without stressing out
- Open up their fridge, see random ingredients and be able to whip up a healthy meal
- Eat out and order in less
- Simply be comfortable in their own kitchen
Which means what they're looking for is less about "learning how to cook" and more about...
Building a Habit of Cooking
In order to be a cook, you just have to do it regularly. That's it! Simple right? What's that? Not so easy? True. Cooking every day is no easier than building any other habit, no matter how good it is for you. But there's a very simple reason that you've failed at creating the habit.
No, it's not because you're too lazy to go
Whenever we want to adopt a new lifestyle it's very tempting to try to jump in with both feet. We try to run five miles every day, we try to floss all our teeth every morning, we want to read three chapters, or write a full blog post. And for cooking, we try to cook the perfect recipe every time.
Think about every time you've tried to cook in the past. Did you just whip up whatever you had laying around or did you spend 20 minutes searching for a recipe, 40 minutes shopping for ingredients, an hour cooking it, and another 15 minutes cleaning up afterward? It's no wonder you gave up so quickly.
What if instead of running 5 miles, you start by just put your running shoes on every day. That's it, you wake up, put your shoes on and you're done. What if you just flossed one tooth in the morning instead of your whole grill. Pretty doable right? Maybe you could just read one page or write for five minutes before going to bed.
For cooking, in the Feast Bootcamp we tell our students to put a pan on the stove when they walk in the door. That's it, you don't have to cook, or put anything in the pan yet. Just take it out and place it on the stove every day. This is what's known as a " tiny habit ," a phrase that was coined by BJ Fogg, one of today's most respected psychologists focused on behavior change. The idea is as simple as its practice. By starting incredibly small and doing that tiny habit every day, you can build the foundation for a habit.
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The Habit Building Process
1. Identify a Trigger
The trigger could be something like closing the door. Remember in the movies when a character gets hypnotized and the sound of a bell makes them think they're a dog? That's essentially what you're doing here, but in a more practical fashion. When you close that door it will trigger the routine and the part of your brain responsible for
2. Change the Routine
Put the pan on the stove. Every day. That's it. Eventually your routine will be to put the pan on the stove, add some oil, dice up veggies and start sauteing like a boss. But for now, just stick to the pan.
3. Reinforce with a Reward
In order to reinforce the habit, your brain needs to think that whatever you're doing is good. You can do that by rewarding yourself. In his book The Power of Habit , Charles Duhigg recommends experimenting with different rewards to figure out what's actually driving your existing habits. If you're eating out it could be because you enjoy the social interaction, so your reward for putting the pan on the stove could be to call a friend. Maybe you just like spending money, so go online and order some groceries. Maybe you tend to get good desserts when you eat out, so have a yummy snack as a reward. If you can't find the perfect reward, even something as simple as doing a dance or yelling "WOO HOO!" out loud will do the trick.
Keep at your simple habit for about a week and then start to add the next steps to your routine. Once successfully creating the habit, cooking will no longer take a great deal of willpower, it will just happen naturally. Your mind will be trained to make cooking the response to your hunger. The stress will fade away and you'll be well on your way to living the healthy, happy life of a cook.
How to Build a Cooking Habit | Summer Tomato
David Spinks is the CEO of Feast , the home of the Feast Bootcamp: a 30-day online program that helps you build a habit of cooking while taking you through the fundamentals of practical, healthy home cooking. He also writes about life improvement, health, habit building and happiness on the Feast Blog .
Image via Alexander Volke (Shutterstock).
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